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No Wonder!

How would you complete the following statement?

The three attributes that high-virtue Christians share in common include:

God-centeredness, joyful living, and __________.

A.  Love toward others

B.  Gratitude

C.  Prayerfulness

D. Spiritual maturity

The argument could be made that all of these attributes might be logical choices. But given the time of year, you can probably guess the answer–according to author/researcher Michael Zigarelli: gratitude [1].

We all know the value of gratitude. It’s been the topic of a number of posts here at From the Inside Out.

We’ve considered the research proving its benefits (A Taste of Heaven), we’ve affirmed that even in the midst of difficulty, we can find reasons to be grateful (Overflowing), and we’ve turned our thanksgiving into A Thanksgiving Prayer).

But Zigarelli introduces another outcome for our gratitude: character development. He maintains that God-centered, joyful, grateful Christians “are far more likely to reap maximum Christian character—to see manifestations of the fruit of the Spirit in their lives”[2].

I wondered, how might gratitude contribute to such impact? A bit of research turned up ten character traits manifested in grateful people. Some you’d expect; some may surprise.

To keep this post reasonable length, here are six of those traits:

Dr. Robert Emmons at the University of California, Davis, found that people who kept weekly gratitude journals reported up to twenty-five per cent higher happiness that those who didn’t. The change occurred quickly also. Within weeks participants felt happier [3].

To think about mistakes of the past, troubling situations in the present, and disturbing “what-ifs” for the future, only make us tense and anxious.

Gratitude to God, on the other hand, helps us focus on his gracious provision in the past, his dependable help for today’s challenges, and hope-filled promises for the future [4].

Everywhere we turn we see things others have but we don’t: a new car, a bigger and better house, an up-to-date wardrobe, a more fulfilling job, a close-knit family, and more. Our thoughts spiral downward into envy and craving—unless we change our trajectory with gratitude.

Gratitude focuses our attention on what we do have, what God has already provided.

A study conducted in 1998 revealed that those who practiced gratitude experienced a 23% decrease in cortisol (related to stress) and a 100% increase in DHEA (a hormone related to resilience and emotional well-being) [5].

Gratitude can’t erase pain, of course, but it does help focus the mind toward what is true, good, and encouraging, to fortify our strength. And as we thank God for his sustaining presence, eternal faithfulness, absolute wisdom, and sovereignty over all, our resilience grows [6].

To sincerely thank God and other people is to acknowledge we are not self-sufficient on our own. They’ve provided something we needed, wanted, or will benefit from.

Such gratitude gives humility a chance to rise within us. “We are honoring the one who has given to us, and therefore are putting ourselves in a second position” [7].

Research conducted by David DeSteno and his team determined cause-and-effect between gratitude and self-control.

“In some experiments,” they reported, “we nudged participants to appraise [frustrating] situations in ways that gave them something to be thankful for. And in each case, greater self-control was the result” [8].

Why would that be? Writer Amy Tyson has observed: “Noticing good gifts remind us of God’s character. It feeds gratitude and exposes sin’s emptiness” [9].

It stands to reason the sin of indiscipline is not the only sin that gratitude might affect, but all sin. To be thankful for all that is right and good restrains us from clambering for what is ill-advised and harmful.

No wonder the Bible speaks of gratitude approximately 157 times, and thanksgiving approximately 72 times—depending on the translation.

Gratitude requires little effort, but the dividends are monumental.


[1] Cultivating Christian Character, 24, quoted by Peter Amsterdam at https://directors.tfionline.com/post/more-jesus-gratitude-part-1/.

[2] Cultivating Christian Character, 24.

[3] https://cct.biola.edu/gratitude-works/.

[4] Psalm 77:11-14; Psalm 46:1; Psalm 9:10.

[5] https://valleychristian.co/the-science-behind-gratitude/.

[6] Psalm 55:22; Psalm 100:5; Daniel 2:20; Psalm 103:19.

[7] Michael Kelley, https://thinke.org/blog/4-reasons-why-gratitude-i-good-for-your-soul.

[8] https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/beyond-words/202003/resilience-and-the-practice-of-gratitude.

[9] https://harvestusa.org/the-power-of-gratitude-in-fighting-sin/.

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“I can’t even write a postcard,” my grandfather used to lament. “As soon as I pick up a pen, the words stop!”

Had Gramps met American author Isaac Asimov, and the conversation turned to Gramps’ perceived inability to write, Asimov would surely have asked, “Do you ever have thoughts?”

Gramps would chuckle. “Of course!”

Then with a twinkle in his eye, Asimov would share one of his famous quotes:

Perhaps you too avoid writing. The process is challenging—finding the words to express your thoughts, combining them into cohesive sentences, and putting those sentences in a sensible order.

And if you have no desire to start a Substack page or produce a book, what’s the point?

Allow me to suggest: the act of writing doesn’t have to lead to publication to be valuable. 


Even personal writing . . .

. . .  helps us focus

. . .  brings clarity to our thoughts

. . .  prompts deeper thinking which often leads to worthwhile discovery

. . . provides a place to capture insights and consider their implications

. . . can lead to a proper perspective of a matter, while considering all sides

For the Christian, personal writing includes even more benefits, as we write-to-meditate on such matters as: scripture, a theological concept, or a quote from a Christian author we want to explore further. Some of the posts here at From the Inside Out began as such explorations.

For the Christian, writing . . .

. . . encourages thoughtful reflection, which leads to meaningful application.

This entry became Quiet Restoration

. . . slows our thinking, allowing room for God to speak within our spirits.

This entry inspired Peace Amidst the Noise

. . . deepens our intimacy with God.

This entry grew into Quietness Is . . .

. . . can be an act of worship

This entry prompted Sweetness and Power

When writing for personal purpose, who cares if the verbs include a mix of past and present tense? So what if a dangling modifier sneaks in? The writing is for you and perhaps for your heavenly Father who revels in sincere, honest effort—mistakes aside.

So how might someone like Gramps—totally averse to writing—get words on the page?

With:

Scripture Writing

“Yep, just write it. Writing the Word helps us slow down and prevents us from skimming too quickly over the text. It’s the most straightforward way we can saturate our hearts and minds with the truth of God’s Word”—Denise Hughes, Deeper Waters, 77.

Then. care to challenge yourself? Write the answers to a few questions such as:

1) What stands out to me in this passage?

2) What does the text say about God, his attributes and actions, and how might that knowledge relate to my life?

3) What does this passage point out that I need to apply to my life? What might that application look like?

A Gratitude Journal

Even secular research has affirmed the value of keeping a gratitude journal. Entries don’t have to be extensive—just a blessing or two each day is sufficient to build up faith, hope, and joy.

‘Can’t think what to write? This website offers 100 prompts, drawing attention to a wide range of God’s blessings: https://proverbs31mentor.com/gratitude-journal-prompts/.

Written Prayers and Praises

In addition to thinking through your fingers, we can also pray or praise through our fingers by simply writing to God what’s on our hearts.

It may be as short as one sentence, but often another thought will surface while writing, and before you know it, a paragraph will appear on the page.

Whatever you choose to write as part of your devotion to God, it need not be elaborate or long.

Just:

And begin to experience the blessings and benefits of the writerly life.

P.S. If you journal already, please share in the comment section below the reasons why you write and what types of entries you write. Your thoughts may spark the interest of others!

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“This is Superintendent Hamilton calling. Is Steve there?”

The phone call that morning caught me off-guard—by who was calling and his instruction. I felt my heart rate quicken even while responding: “No, but may I take a message?”

“I need for you and Steve to come to the district office—this afternoon, if possible. When you’re able to reach him, have Steve arrange a time with my secretary, and I’ll see you then!”

Dr. Hamilton quickly ended the call, busy as he was, especially given the season: appointment-announcement time. Surely this was what he wanted to discuss with us.

That afternoon we learned that my husband, a pastor, would be assigned to a new church, effective in three months’ time. As Dr. Hamilton prayed for us, tears filled my eyes.

We’d developed delightful friendships within our current church—people who’d become like family over the previous five years. But soon we’d no longer sing in the choir together, meet every Monday night at the parsonage for Small Group (which grew to about thirty-five or forty people), or laugh and whoop through holiday parties with one another.

A more sedate gathering of the group in Fellowship Hall at the church

This was the hardest part of being married to a pastor in our denomination: moving. In those days we had little voice in the matter. The bishop and district superintendents made the decisions; clergy families were expected to abide by them.

Change is hard, especially when thrust upon you. Some of you know full well; you’ve experienced much worse upheaval than moving.

For me, at that point in my young adult life, I still had much to learn about navigating the challenge of change. There’s actually much we can do to ease the transition and find ourselves changed-for-the-better in the process.

To begin, we might . . .

Embrace Heartening Truths about Change

For example:

  • “Change is God’s idea. He orchestrates it, and it never takes him by surprise [1].
  • Change is good! It can deliver us right into the palm of God’s hand, which is where we wanted to be all along [2].
  • The God who made us will equip us for the road ahead, even if it’s an unpleasant road [3].

Consider Change as a Gift . . .

. . . because along with the difficulties and heartaches come beautiful benefits as well:

Our faith grows as we’re compelled to press in closer to God for comfort and strength. We experience Spirit-orchestrated transformation as perseverance does its work to produce maturity (James 1:4). And tempered resilience develops as change pushes and pulls us, rebukes and remakes us [4] into better people than we were before.

In addition, new possibilities present themselves that never occurred to us. (Think of Joseph’s transition from household overseer to prime minister—by way of prison, or David from shepherd to king—by way of living as a fugitive for a dozen years or so.)

Allow the Transition to Lead to Transformation [5]

How? By:

  • Clinging to scripture truth. We can begin in the Psalms, copying, journaling and meditating on those truths about God that are relevant to our situations. We can copy promises that offer reassurance and hope. (Another post, The Favor of God, offers an example.)
  • Affirming that God has a hope-filled future awaiting us (Jeremiah 29:11) and taking the next step forward. Tomorrow, we do it again. Before long we see his plan for good unfolding before us [6].
  • Looking back with gratitude and remembering: Just as God has brought us through challenges in the past (sometimes quite wondrously!), he will bring us through our current challenges as well. (Again, another post, Sacred Hands Behind the Scenes, offers examples from my journal.)
  • Looking forward with anticipation and asking: What opportunities might lie ahead? How might God use me in this new life-chapter?

This is not to claim we should sail through the challenge of change hassle-free. But even when swamped by trouble, we can take heart in knowing our God is a strong, stabilizing anchor through every storm.

He’s our ever-present help through every trial, our full provider for every need, and our gracious guide for every path [7].

As for that move? The next church (and three more after that) provided new friends, new opportunities, and new joys!


[1] Sherry Surrat, https://www.todayschristianwoman.com/articles/2016/february/ how-to-cope-with-change.html.

[2] Sheila Niequist, Savor, 10.

[3] Karol Ladd, Thrive, Don’t Simply Survive, 36.

[4] Sheila Niequist

[5] Jean Wise, Sacred Surroundings, 150.

[6] Betsy de Cruz, https://www.crosswalk.com/devotionals/your-daily-prayer/a-prayer-for-when-you’re-facing-unwanted-changes.html.

[7] Hebrews 6:19; Psalm 46:1; Philippians 4:19; Psalm 48:14b.

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Freshen Up

Let’s say you’ve just arrived home after a long day at work and in fifteen minutes you have to head out again for a dinner engagement.

No time to shower, but a quick “freshen-up,” a change of clothes, a brush through the hair, a touch-up of the make-up (for the women reading this!), and violá—you not only look more presentable, you actually feel more energized.

Such a scenario highlights a strategy we can apply in the spiritual realm as well. We can freshen up our faith. Sometimes all it takes is a new perspective, obtained in less than fifteen minutes!

For example, browse through the following quotes that offer notable perspectives on faith in God. See if your heart doesn’t liven up while reading one or two.

FAITH DEFINITIONS

“Faith is not about everything turning out OK. Faith is about being OK no matter how things turn out”—Unknown.

“Faith isn’t the ability to believe, long and far into the misty future. It’s simply taking God at His Word and taking the next step”—Joni Eareckson Tada.

“Faith is letting down our nets into the transparent deeps of the Divine command, not knowing what we shall draw”—Francois Fenelon.

“Faith is not the belief that God will do what you want. It is the belief that God will do what is right”—Max Lucado.

FAITH IN SPITE OF DOUBTS

“Trust God’s Word and his power more than you trust your own feelings and experiences. Remember, your Rock is Christ, it is the sea that ebbs and flows with the tides, not Him”—Samuel Rutherford.

“Feed your faith and your doubts will starve”—Debbie Macomber.

Hope is no less real because it seems small amid the darkness. Faith is no less yours to claim because you struggle against doubt” (Bodie and Brock Thoene, Take This Cup, 224).

“Don’t dig up in doubt what you planted in faith”—Elisabeth Elliot.

FAITH IN SPITE OF TROUBLE

“Faith doesn’t always take you out of the problem, faith takes you through the problem. Faith doesn’t always take away the pain, faith gives you the ability to handle the pain. Faith doesn’t take you out of the storm, faith calms you in the midst of the storm”—Unknown.

Jeremiah [the biblical prophet] often felt terrible and he was treated terribly. He felt weak and often was near despair. In fact, he was always strong. His emotions often failed him, his faith always held fast”—Eugene Peterson, Run with the Horses, 57.

“Faith is deliberate confidence in the character of God whose ways you may not understand”—Oswald Chambers.

“I believe in the sun even when it is not shining. I believe in love even when I cannot feel it. I believe in God even when he is silent”—Unknown.

FAITH INSPIRATION

“Faith sees the invisible, believes the unbelievable, and receives the impossible”—Corrie ten Boom.

“Face the future with expectancy. Believe that God will act in due time. He cannot lie, but he is not in a hurry . . . Thanking God that it will be so before it is so, that’s faith—Arnold Prater, Bonding with God, 81.

“Faith invites us into an enchanting journey—one marked by mysteries of divine beauty, holy courage, irrepressible hope, unending love”—Margaret Feinberg, Wonderstruck, 7.

“Faith is putting all your eggs in God’s basket, then counting your blessings before they hatch”—Ramona C. Carroll.

I pray these quotes did indeed freshen up your spirit with renewed faith.

Which one did you find most revitalizing? Why did it stand out to you? Please share in the comment section below!

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Her application was ready to send, but college student Ruth Siemens didn’t even have money for the three-cent stamp. “Lord,” she prayed, “If you want me to train with Wycliffe Translators, * I ask that today you send money for the stamp!”

The mail arrived, but no money. The last letter came from an elderly woman Ruth had met just once. Out of that envelope fluttered a three-cent stamp.

So began what Ruth expected to be a career as a missionary—a dream she’d held since a girl—which narrowed to Peru while studying Spanish at Biola College.

But that dream shattered in 1945 when, at age twenty, she was diagnosed with tuberculosis, leaving her with only one functioning lung. What mission board will accept me now? she thought.

Deeply disappointed but still determined to serve God, Ruth enrolled at Chico State in California to earn a degree in education and English.

She joined IVCF (InterVarsity Christian Fellowship) and attended every training session they offered. Frequently she didn’t have the money to get home afterward, but God always provided.

“It’s not easy to get first-hand experience of God’s love and power, if loans and credit cards are easily available!” she observed.

As Ruth began teaching in San Francisco she met two other teachers with IVCF training. They volunteered with the local chapter and also established a Christian fellowship for teachers which grew into Bible study groups, outreach breakfasts and teas.

Soon such events were being held beyond their district.

In 1954, Ruth happened to meet two missionaries, Don and Nadine Burns, who suggested she apply for a teaching position at the binational school in the city where they served: Lima, Peru!

Ruth didn’t even know such schools existed. She applied and was accepted.

But when she arrived, no one met her at the airport. All she had for contact information was a post office box number. While she wondered  what to do next, Don Burns approached.

“How did you know I was coming?” Ruth asked.

“I didn’t!” Don declared. “I just brought another person who’s departing today.” 

Once again, God proved to Ruth his presence, love, and power. She made her way to school the next day, confident that God would guide and provide.

Ruth soon met Peruvian teacher, Marta. While the two were getting acquainted, Marta suddenly remarked, “You probably know what’s in the Bible. Would you teach me?”

Marta soon became a believer, and then brought her three teenage sons so they could know Jesus.

Ruth began teaching a Sunday School class of sixth graders (all of whom became Christians) and started a Bible club for high school girls.

In her spare time (!) she audited classes at San Marcos University to improve her Spanish. There she met Maria who agreed to give Ruth Spanish lessons which turned into Bible studies, and Maria put her faith in Christ.

She brought friends and Ruth realized God was guiding her into college student ministry. When she approached the local chapter of IFES (International Fellowship of Evangelical Students), they invited her to join their staff–effective immediately–since Ruth didn’t need to raise support; she was already employed.

And it dawned on Ruth, I’m a missionary—just not in the conventional way!

Ruth led campus Bible studies, wrote Bible study materials, and worked with other missionaries to host week-long training conferences. By the time her three-year school contract had ended, numerous students were serving in leadership positions with IFES.

Ruth began to pray about teaching in another Spanish-speaking country and starting a campus ministry there. She applied for a number of positions but heard nothing. Again, funds dwindled and her visa would soon expire.

Then a telegram arrived from a Brazilian school, asking for her decision concerning their job offer. Although she’d briefly met the head administrator, she’d never applied. Brazilians speak Portuguese, and Ruth still felt inadequate in Spanish.

“But when all doors close except one,” she explained, “guidance is clear.”

For eleven years in Brazil, Ruth undertook much the same work among students she’d accomplished in Peru—and experienced more miracles.  “It would take a book to tell of all God’s constant provision and protection,” she wrote.

In 1968, Ruth was sent by IFES to Spain and Portugal to pioneer student ministries there—this time as a full-time staff member.

And God continued to bless her efforts. Opportunities there led to large-scale conferences, attended by representatives from fifty-five countries.

She even held secret training sessions in Communist-controlled Poland.

Upon her return to the States in 1975, IFES asked Ruth to participate in missions promotions and training sessions on campuses across the country.

Many students accepted Christ into their lives; Christian students wanted to know how they could find employment overseas to combine “work and witness” as she had. Ruth collected their names and addresses—six hundred of them.

As a result, she established a ministry called Global Opportunities, to find employment abroad for such individuals, and offer them counseling and training.

Making inquiries by mail was laborious, but Ruth and her volunteers persisted. Then, with the introduction of the internet, the task became easier. By 2018, the team was posting 70,000 job openings per day.  

Today the network is known as Global Intent.  

Missionaries live and work in ninety-one countries, ministering and sharing their faith as God provides opportunity.

And provide he does. Ruth Siemens (1925-2005) would be the first to affirm that.

* An organization that translates the Bible into languages that do not yet have it.

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SOURCES:

https://intervarsity.org/news/ruth-siemens–in-his-presence

Severance, Diana Lynn. “Tentmaker Training Tentmakers,” Her Story, 388.


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Take Heart!

Life is full of setbacks and stress, dilemmas and disappointments, conflicts and crises:

  • The new dishwasher springs a leak and damages the adjacent cabinet before it’s discovered
  • Your new boss consistently demands more than you can deliver without overtime, but there’s no extra pay since you’re salaried
  • The company you work for is looking to sell; everyone is anxious how the sale will impact employees
  • Your sister and her husband seem headed for divorce; he won’t go to counseling
  • Your daughter was just diagnosed with Type-1 diabetes

If it’s not one thing, it’s another. How can we “be strong and take heart” as the imaged scripture above encourages us to do?

The psalmist King David tells us where to begin in the very same verse:

HOPE IN THE LORD

And how do we do that?

We keep our eyes open for God’s encouragement as he gives light to our path, provision for our needs, and blessings to lift our spirits. (A previous post, “Sacred Hands Behind the Scenes,” provides a few examples.)

Watchfulness often leads to amazement, and noticing what God is doing now fuels our hope for what he will do in the future.

Also good to remember? Some of the most beautiful and sacred encounters with God occur during the difficult seasons of life.

Christina Gibson observed, “In positions of flux, in the horrible disappointments, I usually have the greatest opportunity for a sacred encounter . . . I don’t know if it’s because I’m more malleable or if God has a soft spot for suffering” [1].

We’d also be wise to:

EMBRACE GRACE

“The greater your knowledge of the goodness and grace of God in your life, the more likely you are to praise him in the storm”[2].

And praise has a way of cheering and strengthening the soul.

We mustn’t forget to also embrace grace for ourselves. We’re human, with physical, mental, and emotional limits.

God has provided the grace of sleep, rest, food, relationships and more to replenish us. We’re wise to take time to do so—and set aside the false guilt for doing so.

ACT KINDLY TOWARD OTHERS

A strange phenomenon occurs when we care for others and ease their burdens—even through small acts of thoughtfulness. Our own heavy hearts grow lighter.

Kindness produces a number of benefits by reducing unhealthy self-focus, fostering joy and gratitude, contributing to spiritual maturity, and growing our dependence on God.

RESOLVE TO STAND FIRM

First, stand firm on truth (Ephesians 6:14a).

“It’s important to rehearse the lovely, rich truths and promises that remain when other things change. Keep telling these truths, in all their many-sided glory, and one day, walls already cracked will crumble and fall”[3].

Second, stand firm on praise (Psalm 147:1).

“No exercise or medicine will cure the ill of discouragement like praise. Depression and praise cannot long live in the same heart. They are absolutely incompatible roommates.

“Praise brings the consciousness of the presence of God and liars from the pit cannot effectively market their wares in the atmosphere of praise”[4].

Third, stand firm in expectancy (Psalm 5:3).

TAKE ONE STEP AT A TIME

We mustn’t allow our thoughts to run ahead into the swirling “what’-ifs” that spiral us downward. Instead, we focus on what needs to be done in this moment, remembering it just might be rest.

Know also that even in suffering “there is enough beauty to get through the minute and then to get through the hour and then to get through the day”[5].

Practice these strategies and find the H.E.A.R.T.—the courage—that Kind David urged:

H = Hope in God

E = Embrace grace

A = Act kindly toward others

R = Resolve to stand firm

T = Take one step at a time

“Trouble is our common lot. The big difference is the people who follow Jesus get to add this tiny little hand grenade of a footnote to our bumper sticker:

“But take heart!  I have overcome the world”[6].


[1] Soul Bare, 94.

[2] Matt Chandler.

[3] Jim MGuiggan, quoted by Beth Moore in Praying God’s Word, 138.

[4] Jack Taylor, quoted by Linda Dillow in Satisfy the Thirsty Soul,191.

[5] Cara Sexton, contributor to Soul Bare, 198.

[6] J. D. Walt, quoted at https://wrestlingwordblog.wordpress, 11-7-2020.

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(The famous Chicken Potholder)

The game is called “Chicken Run”; the rules are simple. IT tries to tag another player with a chicken-shaped potholder, or he/she may throw the potholder Frisbee-style, and snag someone that way. If the chicken touches you below the shoulder, you’re the next IT.

I love playing this game with our granddaughters. Laughter is guaranteed– sometimes the result of a clever move that avoids the potholder, or when “You-missed-me!” is soon followed by a solid chicken-thwack.

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(A 30-second rest before the next round.)

We don’t bother keeping score. When we get too tired to run, the game is over, yet everyone feels energized and relaxed. No surprise there. You’ve surely experienced how rejuvenating a bit of fun can be—physically, mentally, and emotionally.

But here’s an idea that may surprise you:  Fun also rejuvenates us spiritually.

Fun can impact our faith.

I admit: Faith and fun are two words we seldom use together. We sometimes feel guilty for having fun, wondering with King Solomon:

But at least several benefits await those who embrace faith and fun together.

Before I list them though, please understand: I’m not suggesting a bit of fun will erase all pain and sorrow. Trouble clearly overshadows fun–at least for a season. But, praise God, joy does come in the morning (Psalm 30:5)!

The benefits of embracing faith and fun together include:

The Euphoria of Answered Prayer

God allows us to be a part of his miracles as we pray for the needs of others. What fun to see his answers come to pass—sometimes way beyond our requests or daydreams (Ephesians 3:20)! Several years ago, I wrote about just such an incident in “Part of the Process.”

 The Pursuit of All Things Praiseworthy

God provides pleasurable fun for us to enjoy every day—even in the midst of difficulty. Such pleasures include: sliding into a fleecy robe on a chilly morning; catching the carefree laughter of children on the breeze; spooning into the season’s first bowl of autumn squash soup.

The Realization That God Engineers Circumstances—Even in Small Matters

Steve and I stopped at a furniture store to inquire about a recliner we’d purchased there, because the bottom and top sections seemed to be separating.  A cheerful salesman showed us how to make the simple repair ourselves.

While there, we checked the clearance section and found a rug and another chair—absolutely perfect for our new home and super-bargain priced. What fun that we would “just happen” into that store at that time!

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Even lovlier in person!

The Special Delight of Faith-Filled People Who Also Know How to Laugh

Somehow God augments the pleasure of fun that rests on a foundation of faith—perhaps because a Christian secure in Jesus is not looking to impress others. They can even tell stories on themselves.

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My grandfather was just such a person. One time years ago, as he was about to leave the mall, he put his key in the lock of his car and nothing happened. The key would not turn. He wondered if the lock had frozen up and he’d have to call Triple-A.

Suddenly a man’s voice from behind him said, “Here. Try this key.” It was the owner of the car. Gramps was trying to get into a similar-but-incorrect vehicle. The two of them enjoyed a good chuckle and wide-eyed amazement that the car owner arrived on the scene when he did.

Now we never would have known about the incident except Gramps told us.  Unlike some who’d feel foolish after such a mistake, he had fun relating the story.  

And perhaps without knowing it, Gramps modeled for us a humble, unself-conscious celebration of life—mistakes included–due to his strong faith-foundation on Jesus. (You may enjoy Gramps’ amazing life-turnaround story  in “The God of Rachel, Henry, and Clara.”)

Billy Sunday used to say:

Let’s plug the leaks with a little fun!

Meanwhile, what kind of fun impacts your faith?  Please share in the Comments below!

(Revised and reblogged from 10-3-2016 during an ultra-busy week.)

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Everywhere We Look

There’s a name for it: pareidolia.

You’ve no doubt experienced it, when discovering a cloud that resembles a bushy-bearded old man, or a house with windows and a front door that look like eyes, a nose and mouth, or a car with headlights staring ahead and a grille grinning at you.

We seem to be wired to find faces everywhere we look.

Similar to this ability in the physical realm, we’ve also been gifted with eyes of the heart that can see truth in the spiritual realm–everywhere we look—if we seek it.

For example:

“LOOK AT the birds of the air,” Jesus directed. “They do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them” (Matthew 6:26).

The perfections of God’s provision are on display everywhere we look in creation, reminding us that out of his goodness, he’ll care for us too.

LOOK BEHIND:

King David wrote, “I LOOK BEHIND me and you’re there” (Psalm 139:5 MSG).

He was likely remembering what God had accomplished in the past–the problems resolved, the blessings provided, the satisfying moments spent with God that quieted his spirit.

We too can LOOK BEHIND for such indicators of God’s presence in our lives and his work on our behalf.

LOOK FOR:

“Beg for knowledge; plead for insight. LOOK FOR it as hard as you would for silver or some hidden treasure” (Proverbs 2:3-4 GNT).

Pastor/Bible teacher, Charles Swindoll would have us understand:

It’s been a joy of my life to LOOK FOR the treasure of truth in the Bible. You too?

LOOK FORWARD:

“Let your eyes LOOK FORWARD; fix your gaze straight ahead,” advised King Solomon (Proverbs 4:25 HCSB).

Why? We need to focus on the goal of glorifying God and enjoying him forever [2], avoiding those distractions that might lead to the compromise of our faith, or into the evil of this world.

LOOK TO:

“I LOOK TO the mountains; where will my help come from? My help will come from the LORD, who made heaven and earth” (Psalm 121:1-2 GNT).

Begin the day with the affirmation, “My powerful God created the universe! With that same power He’s promised to help me” (Psalm 46:1)!

Then seize the day with confidence, knowing that nothing can stand in his way.

LOOK UP:

“My voice shalt thou hear in the morning, O Lord; in the morning will I direct my prayer unto thee, and will LOOK UP” (Psalm 5:3 KJV).

And when we LOOK UP, what do we see? A God who loves us, desires what’s best for us, and works through events, relationships, challenges, and blessings to bring that best into fruition.

LOOK WITHIN:

LOOK WITHIN as you “Examine yourselves to see if your faith is genuine” (2 Corinthians 13:5a NLT).

Socrates said, “An unexamined life is not worth living.”

So here are a few questions to guide us as we LOOK WITHIN to take a spiritual inventory:

Am I living a life of obedience out of heartfelt gratitude for what Christ has done for me?

Am I relying upon the Holy Spirit to produce his qualities in my life—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness and more (Galatians 5:22-23)?

What do my reactions reveal about my faith? How do I respond to criticism, unkindness, or anger?


Finding faces everywhere we look in the physical realm can be a fun past time.

Finding truth everywhere we look in the spiritual realm is a necessity because . . .


[1] Come before Winter, 230.

[2] From the Westminster Shorter Catechism.

[3] From a sermon, “The Basis for Spiritual Growth,” May 22, 2022, https://gracequotes.org/topic/self-examination/.

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Fast Lane Fantasy

Years ago and for the span of a decade, I commuted a half hour each way to and from the school where I taught.

Needless to say I saw all kinds of drivers: the speed demons and poke-alongs, the weavers and squeezers, the distracted and multi-taskers—each one an accident waiting to happen, each one confident that he or she was not.

One day a young man on a motorcycle whizzed by, darting between vehicles left and right in search of the fastest lane. This was not in near standstill traffic; it was on a stretch of Florida Turnpike where the speed limit is seventy.

Oh, Lord, I thought. Talk about an accident waiting to happen. That boy has no idea the danger he’s creating for himself and everyone else in his path.

A few minutes later I reached my exit and gasped aloud. Lying in the grass in the middle of the cloverleaf turn-off was that young motorcyclist, far separated from his twisted bike.

A few people were already hunched over him, perhaps from the nearby tollbooth area. I breathed a sigh of relief when I saw his leg move.

Every now and then that scene comes to mind. I imagine that young man as he straddled his cycle that morning, anxious to be on his way for another exhilarating trip of engine revving, speed, and clever maneuvering.

No doubt a trip to the hospital never even crossed his mind.

The young often do live in a fantasy world of invincibility. And those of us with a bit more life-experience shake our heads at their carelessness.

But fast-lane living isn’t the singular domain of speeders and teenage boys on motorcycles.

Even a retired schoolteacher like me can forget: life is fragile.

Not that I drive recklessly or take foolish chances.

But I am very capable of rushing through a to-do list and missing an opportunity to provide joy in someone else’s life. I can breeze right past the blessings-of-the-moment because I’m focused on something down the road.

I can even forget the values I hold dear, including attentiveness to God and loving compassion for others.

It is downright foolish of me to live in a fantasy of invincibility, as if there will always be plenty of tomorrows for attentiveness and compassion, while cruising along in the fast lane of frenzied activity.

Instead, I’d rather cup my hands around each day and:

Find wonder in the common. “The moment one gives close attention to anything, even a blade of grass, it becomes a mysterious, awesome, indescribable, magnificent world in itself” (Henry Miller).

Take note of the everyday miracles. “Looking is the beginning of seeing” (Sister Corita Kent).

Hug often. “Hugs are one of the reasons God gave us arms. So stretch out your arms to someone today . . . It will warm the heart of the giver and give light to the soul of the recipient” (Unknown).

Laugh easily.

Value every person. “The way we treat others is more about who we are, not who they are” (Unknown, emphasis added).

Forgive quickly. “Forgiveness isn’t about letting the other person off the hook. It’s about keeping the hooks of bitterness from getting into you” (Gabrielle Bernstein).

Avoid negativity. “Beautiful things happen when you distance yourself from negativity” (Unknown).

Choose joy. “True contentment is the power of getting out of any situation all that there is in it” (G. K. Chesterton).

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Lord God, I have so much to be thankful for, including this cloudy, cozy day and the welcome chill in the air. I thank you for this moment, complete with winking candle, hazelnut coffee, and soft music to keep me company as I write.

Thank you also for the designated purpose you ordain for each person.   Because I am still alive, you still have plans to fulfill through me, especially to bless others. For that I am also grateful.

Keep me mindful, I pray, that fast lane living is not only foolish, it is dangerous to my soul.

(1 Thessalonians 5:18; Psalm 37:23; Proverbs 19:21; Ephesians 2:10)

What will you cup your hands around today?  Tell us about it in the comment section below!

(Revised and reblogged from September 14, 2017 while my husband is in the hospital after a small stroke. We’re awaiting test results that will determine the way forward. All is well; God is good!)

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“Will Nancy Ruegg please come to the gate counter,” a voice announced over the airport PA system. My one-track mind was deep into a book but fortunately I heard my name.

What could they possibly want with me? I wondered, while gathering my belongings and approaching the counter.

“Mrs. Ruegg,” began the attendant, “we have a favor to ask of you. Would you mind changing your seat so a father and son can travel together? You’d still be in an aisle seat.”

“Sure—I can do that,” I responded. She thanked me, changed my ticket, and I returned to the waiting area. Sometime later, they called my name again and asked the same favor. Though further back in the plane, I’d still be on the aisle so I said yes.

And then, just before boarding they called me up a third time: “Mrs. Ruegg, because you’ve been so kind, we’d like to put you in first class. We happen to have an empty seat.”

Now imagine if I’d responded, “Oh, no thank you. I’d much rather stay in the main cabin.”

How silly! I would have missed:

  • the relative peace and quiet of first class
  • the blessings of more leg room and a wide, cushy seat that actually reclines
  • the attentive care of the flight attendant, who even addressed me by name
  • the privilege of a full meal and delectable snacks—way beyond peanuts and pretzels

That’s a lot of benefits to pass up, if I’d said no. Yet that’s exactly what we’re prone to do in day-to-day life. We forego a life of satisfying upgrades and settle for a lot of frustrating futility, because we don’t avail ourselves to the benefits Christ offers.

‘Remember what he said?

Many versions of the Bible use the term, “abundant life,” indicating a surplus, a super-abundance of a thing [1].

Of course, Jesus wasn’t promising a trouble-free life, any more than sitting in first class that day solved all my problems. Rather, the abundant life consists of knowing God and experiencing the fruit of that relationship—into eternity [2].

What might “the fruit of relationship” with God include? Some qualities share characteristics with first class on a flight:

  • Peace and quiet—of mind and spirit
  • The delight of many blessings
  • The attentive care of a heavenly Father who knows each of us by name
  • The privilege of access to God’s Word, providing rich soul-sustenance [3]

But that’s not all; the list continues. (No doubt these are familiar to many of you, but seeing them altogether rekindles the wonder, I think):

  • An intimate relationship with the God of the universe
  • His unfailing love
  • Inexpressible and glorious joy
  • Wisdom to choose the best means for the best end
  • Guidance for the way forward
  • God’s help and strength
  • Freedom from guilt and worry
  • Fulfilling purpose
  • Contentment [4]

It’s a magnificent list, isn’t it? So why aren’t we availing ourselves of these benefits?

Instead, we’re sitting in the main cabin of life with the constant rumble in our minds of nagging worries and worthless trifles, the crush of responsibilities pressing in on all sides, and a lack of sustenance to feed our hungry souls.

What will usher us into the abundance of first-class living? We follow the judicious instructions of our Maker—and move toward obedience.

These three steps offer a start:

  • Start the day alert for God’s guaranteed blessings and end the day with gratitude for his benevolent goodness. (See Balancing-the-Scales/).

We’ll soon discover: “A life of holiness is a life of real happiness—happiness for time and for eternity” (John MacDuff).

‘Anyone still interested in peanuts and pretzels?


 

[1] William Barclay, The Gospel of John, 69.

[2] https://insightforliving.ca/read/articles/finding-balance-between-abundant-life-and-challenges.

[3] Isaiah 26:3; Psalm 23:5; Psalm 121; Isaiah 43:1; Jeremiah 15:16.

[4] James 4:8; Psalm 86:15; 1 Peter 1:8; Proverbs 2:1-11 and J. I. Packer, Knowing God;

  Psalm 32:8; Isaiah 41:10; Romans 8:1; Philippians 4:6-7; Ephesians 2:10; Philippians 4:11-12.

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