(Success is not final, failure is not fatal; it is the courage to continue that counts.” — Winston Churchill)
The annals of history are filled with failures. Consider:
Example #1: A.’s parents may have felt like failures when their son did not speak until age four and did not read until he was seven. Later they faced the embarrassment of his expulsion from school.
But surely his parents must have breathed a sigh of relief when A. was finally admitted to a university–only to be discouraged again when a professor called him a lazy dog! Who was this disappointing failure of a son? Albert Einstein.
Example #2: As a young man, W. worked for a newspaper, but not for long. His editor told him he lacked imagination and had no good ideas. In the coming years he started a number of short-lived enterprises that ended in bankruptcy. The name of this business failure? Walt Disney.
Example#3: M. was set up for failure. Jealous competitors convinced an employer to assign him a difficult, time-consuming project, outside M.’s area of expertise. It was a sure-fire plan to keep him busy, ruin his reputation, and be rid of him.
The employer? Pope Junius II. The person set up for failure? Michelangelo. The project was the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel.
Michelangelo had no experience with fresco painting. In addition to tackling a new medium, he had to paint upside down on a curved surface. It took him four years to complete the project.
But. Giorgio Vasari (1511-1574), painter, writer, and historian said, “The whole world came running when the vault was revealed, and the sight of it was enough to reduce them to stunned silence.” I’ll bet his competitors were among them!
As I seek to put myself in the place of each of these individuals, I sense their disappointment, embarrassment, and frustration. Failure is painful! It damages our dignity and destroys our morale.
Simply put, failure feels bad…
…but that’s good!
Defeats push us to refocus and redirect. And with God’s help, those two steps can bring us to peace in spite of failure, and hope for a future of contentment. Our relationship with God is deepened; our character is strengthened.
Care to join me in a closer look at those two verbs, refocus and redirect?
Refocus by turning our attention upward—not backward. Dwelling on the disappointments of the past is counterproductive.
As soon as we realize negativity has moved in, we must refocus our thoughts on gratitude for God’s gifts and praise for his attributes. (If my past experience is any indication, we may have to do this frequently. The enemy does not give up easily!)
But when we fill our hearts and minds with faith-statements, peace, encouragement and hope have a chance to flourish.
Redirect our energy. God gives us our marching orders in Psalm 37. Again, note the verbs.
“Trust in the Lord and do good…Delight yourself in the Lord…Commit your way to the Lord…Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him…Do not fret—it leads only to evil (Psalm 37:3-8).
And all the while we can remind ourselves, God specializes in providing…
- Strength for the weary and power for the weak
- Light in place of darkness
- New ways out of a wasteland
- Comfort for the afflicted
- Gladness and joy after sorrow and sighing
- Beauty out of ashes
(Isaiah 40:28-29; 42:16; 43:19; 49:13; 51:11; 61:3)
Thank God he also provides what Winston Churchill (at the beginning of the post) says counts the most: the courage to continue.
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This is wonderful! Thank you so much for sharing. 🙂
You’re welcome, Heather. ‘Delighted you found the post meaningful. Praise God!
Right on! Thank you, Nancy, for a very encouraging message. It is easier said than done but we must all learn “to let go and LET GOD”.
Yes, for me it’s an ongoing discipline. Thank you for stopping by, Ruth, and for being a loyal reader.
Fantastic!-I bet Steve has used this-I will-maybe you should preach-no kidding!………………….guy
Thanks, Guy. No, Steve has not used this, but you’re welcome to! I’ll have to keep this post in mind–if I’m ever asked to preach. HA!
Psalm 37 is pretty much one of my ALL TIME favorite Psalms…..
You have chosen well, Jody!
Wonderful reminder that when we ‘feel’ as if we have failed in some way, the Lord gives us the tools to rise above our failure…to persevere…and with faith in Him…things will work out to be better even than our original attempt or intention! Like Ruth said above…we need to LET GO (of our original goal)…and LET GOD (work His will through us)…without fretting! I love this!
Potent truth, indeed. Now if I could just apply it consistently…
BUT! I must say, as the years go by, I am growing in my ability to refocus and redirect. God IS working on me; he’s just not finished yet!
Thank you for your articulate comment, Cheri!
When I became a real estate agent, I was intimidated by the successful agents, one of them told me to fake it until you make it. I made it and I prayed my way through, I was grateful for the tools God gave me to make it. I became a friend to one of the agents who I thought intimidated me, today we are very close. Amazing, how my thinking can be distorted when I don’t depend on God. Thanks again Nancy.
Thank you for sharing from your experience, Laura. What you’ve said is SO true: “My thinking can be distorted when I don’t depend on God.” Continually reaffirming my faith in Almighty God will keep my thinking on the straight path to peace, joy, and contentment!
I catching up on your blog today. I still can’t get it by email, oh well. This one I needed today. God knew when I’d need it. I want to be perfect, spot on at all times. After last week’s ho-hum experience I am relying more on him than on myself. That’s what he intended in the first place. Thank you.
I am right with you, Rita, in my desire to be spot on at all times. I’m learning that perfectionism is not the same as perfected, and that perfectionism puffs up into pride. Not a worthy goal! You ARE spot on when you say: “I am relying more on him than on myself. That’s what he intended in the first place.”
Thank you for stopping by, Rita, and taking time to comment!