When some folks say, “Merry Christmas” they mean, “I hope you have a fun and festive holiday.”
That would be in keeping with the definition of merry: full of high-spirited gaiety, delightful, entertaining, joyful, and mirthful.
But centuries ago the word merry denoted peacefulness and blessedness. “Merry Christmas” meant, “May you have a peaceful Christmas” and “May Christmas bring the blessing of God to you” (Christmas by Charles L. Allen and Charles L. Wallis, Fleming Revell Co., 1977).
An old carol highlighted this idea:
“God rest ye merry, gentlemen;
Let nothing you dismay.
Remember Christ our Savior
Was born on Christmas Day,
To save us all from Satan’s pow’r
When we were gone astray.”
Did you pause after the comma in the first line? Without it, the meaning changes. The anonymous poet was wishing peaceful, contented, joyful rest to others, as they remembered Christ their Savior.
“Merry Christmas,” then, can be a prayer within a greeting. Something like:
Oh, Lord, may your spirit of peace rest upon the life of this person. May he/she experience the blessing of your presence and your joy.”
There are many people around us who need a divine touch, especially during the Christmas season. The merriment around these folks seems a mockery of their despair. Perhaps that includes you. May the prayers below speak a Merry Christmas blessing to you, especially if you are:
Lonely. Oh, God, wrap a loving embrace of your comfort around those who do not have family or friends with them this Christmas. I thank you for the promise that you are our refuge and strength, always ready to help when we need you (Psalm 46:1). Be a warm solace, I pray, to the one who feels alone.
Enduring hardship. Oh, God, may the blessing of Christmas include grace and mercy for your children who are suffering through difficulty. Out of your compassionate mercy, ease their burden, and out of your unfailing grace, grant them strength and favor (Hebrews 4:16).
Struggling with painful memories of Christmases past. Oh, God, shower your tender, loving care upon those with hurts from the past, hurts that cast a shadow over the joys of the present. Grant them liberating freedom from emotional distress. May your peace cover those memories, so they no longer cause anguish (John 14:27).
For all of us, Heavenly Father, may the blessing of Christmas include renewed wonder for the indescribable gift of your Son. Thank you for providing through him the way to eternal life. Such peace and blessing are ours in that single assurance!
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