It happened one summer day when all three kids still lived at home. I’d been working at my desk for awhile and came out to the family room to find snack dishes and glasses here and there, Legos strewn across the floor, craft supplies littering the table, as well as bits of belongings strewn on the counter between kitchen and family room.
(At least it wasn’t THIS bad!)
At that moment one of those precious children asked, “Mom! Since you’re up, can you get me some ice for my glass?”
To be honest, the details of the above event are hidden in the dust of several decades. What I do remember clearly was my response to the perpetrators of a grand mess and a thoughtless request. In a sonorous tone worthy of Cinderella’s stepmother I announced:
“LISTEN! I am NOT your SERVANT!!”
No sooner had I barked that declaration, than the Holy Spirit seemed to whisper, “Oh yes, you are.”
I knew what he meant. Not what the three children would have liked—a personal maid to clean up after them and keep their things organized.
No, God was talking about denying myself in order to develop them. In that moment it meant (calmly!) directing them in a family room overhaul. Such a feat required some teeth-gritting, let me tell you.
Since those days, I’ve learned a few things to improve my attitude as I serve others, so Cinderella’s stepmother appears less often.
God actually makes it possible to embrace servanthood when we remember:
We’re serving Christ.
He sees the daily grind of discipline we expend on our kids, the messes others make that we clean up, the kindnesses we perform when no one’s looking, the work we do for the benefit of others. But we tend to forget our invisible audience of One [1].
We’d do well to remember:
The real test of a saint is not one’s willingness to preach the gospel, but one’s willingness to do something like washing the disciples’ feet [2].
Oswald Chambers
Second, nothing is insignificant when we’re serving God; no effort is wasted.
We might not see positive results from our efforts, but God promises our work on behalf of others will never be for nothing.
Ask someone, “Who was influential in your life?” and the answer will usually include a quiet, modest person who made themselves available, listened more than talked, hugged warmly, and joined in celebrating or grieving with loving interest–insignificant efforts in the eyes of some, but not to that one, and not to God.
In addition, God has designed us so serving others fosters great satisfaction—an actual rush of endorphins—as God fulfills another promise:
Third, small acts of service may result in a grand conclusion.
When men do anything for God, the very least thing, they never know where it will end nor what amount of work it will do for Him. Love’s secret, therefore, is to be always doing things for God, and not to mind because they are such very little ones.
Frederick W. Faber (1814-1863)
Alcoholic John Baker finally hit bottom when his wife told him to get counseling or leave. John left.
But soon he was attending AA meetings and finding his way back to sobriety, reconciliation with his wife, and God. The meetings were certainly helpful but other members mocked John when he revealed his Higher Power was Jesus.
Meanwhile, John’s reunited family began attending church and a Spirit-inspired idea began to form. What if there was a place where Christians could find healing from their hurts, hang-ups, and addictions?
With his pastor’s blessing (You may know him—Rick Warren!), John spent many hours preparing for his first group to complete a 12-week, 12-step program based on scripture. He included his own humble confessions.
Would anyone come?
Forty-three people attended. Now, thirty years later, 35,000 churches worldwide host Celebrate Recovery groups; over seven million people have been impacted.
And though John Baker unexpectedly graduated to heaven in February of this year, the grand conclusion of his work is still pending [3].
So is ours.
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O God, compel me to always be serving you—even in the least things—with passion and delight. Guide me to act wherever and whenever you desire, that I might be a part of your overarching purpose.
[1] Audience of One, a song made popular by Big Daddy Weave
[2] from My Utmost for His Highest
[3] https://celebraterecovery.com/about/history-of-cr ; https://www.celebraterecovery.co.uk/pastor-john-bakers-testimony/
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