English poet, William Blake (1757-1827) penned those words of the title.
We don’t have to look far to see that he was right:
- Children pick up mannerisms, inflections, even body language from their parents.
- Couples who have been married a long time often begin to look alike (1).
- Transplants to another part of the country frequently pick up the accent of that region.
In addition, modern neurological research has proven Mr. Blake’s statement in ways even he never imagined.
Here’s what scientists have discovered: Thoughts travel along specific pathways to various destinations in our brains. As we consider the same thought frequently, the pathway for that thought becomes more deeply entrenched. The final result? The more often we contemplate something, the more it will affect our thought patterns, how we feel, and how we behave (2).
No wonder God inspired Paul to write:
According to that research mentioned above, to behold (observe and take in) such things as Paul lists will lead us to become honorable, pure, admirable, etc. In fact, we’ll gradually begin to resemble Jesus.
But how do we contemplate the Lord’s glory on a day-to-day basis? How do we train our thoughts to etch worthwhile pathways in our brains, so we’re thinking, feeling, and behaving in Jesus-like ways?
To begin, we might check the stimuli for our thoughts:
- the book(s), magazines, and websites we read
- the programs and movies we watch
- the music and podcasts we listen to
- the kind of entertainment we choose
- the conversations we participate in—in person and on social media
Can we describe these activities with the adjectives Paul used in Philippians 4:8? Is our reading material pure? Our entertainment admirable? Our conversations worthy of praise?
O God,
Second, we set-aside a quiet time with God each day.
It is surely one of the loveliest and most excellent activities for beholding him, as we immerse ourselves in truth for life from his Word, revel in his glorious attributes, and talk to him about the concerns on our hearts.
“Look up into his lovely face and as you behold him,
he will transform you into his likeness.
You do the beholding—he does the transforming.”
—Alan Redpath
Third, we infuse the hours of each day with praise.
All those descriptors in Philippians 4:8 apply to Jesus. Day in and day out we can enjoy the uplift of praise, celebrating that he is:
- the epitome of truth (John 14:6).
- honorable and worthy of all tribute, because he lived a sinless life and sacrificed himself on the cross for us (Revelation 5:12).
- right in all he does (Jeremiah 23:5).
- pure in all he is (1 Peter 2:22).
- lovely, as the radiance of God’s glory (Hebrews 1:3).
- admirable, as the only man tempted in every way and yet never sinned (Hebrews 4:15).
- excellent in all ways, including his servitude, humility, and obedience (Philippians 2:6-8).
- praiseworthy, as ruler of all things (Matthew 28:18).
In addition, Jesus was a man of peace, joy, wisdom, kindness, courage and more (3).
And God wants us to be the same, to become like his Son (Philippians 1:6).
Can you think of any greater aspiration?
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Notes:
- One theory to explain this phenomenon: We unconsciously mimic the facial expressions of our spouses, as we empathize with their experiences and emotions. Over time, repeated expressions shape our faces in similar ways.
- https://www.maxanders.com/we-become-what-we-behold.
- John 14:27; John 15:11; Luke 2:40; Matthew 9:36; Philippians 2:8.
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Nancy, your message turned my thoughts back to our Encouragers’ meeting yesterday when we discussed dealing with Thanksgiving while grieving. Grace has joined our group and has graciously volunteered to play the piano for us. She had selected the hymn “Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus.” Your message reminds us that we don’t have to be troubled and weary. We can always turn our eyes upon Jesus and look full in his wonderful face to see His glory and grace. We are surrounded by it. All we have to do is to open our eyes and acknowledge Him. The beauty and wonder with which He has blessed and surrounded us is there for us to behold and enjoy. Thank you again for another beautiful and inspiring message.
So glad you found inspiration here AND that the Encouragers are still meeting. I continue to pray for you and Betsy and the other participants on a regular basis!
Thank you, Nancy!
You’re welcome, Susan!
Nancy, you continue to inspire me to seek God in his word daily. Thank you for using your writing talent to encourage so many. Anita
Thank you, dear Anita! Praise God you continue to find inspiration here.
Spending more time in the Lord’s Word has definitely helped me in dealing with my fears. And it is so very true that what we allow ourselves to be exposed to has a direct bearing on the mind and what it retains…good and bad. I’m reminded of that childhood song ‘Be Careful Little Eyes What You See’. It is a simple children’s song but I’ve never forgotten it and its truths.
I remember that song! God our Father does look down on us in love, as another line of the lyrics expresses. How he must smile when we make wise choices, causing us to sparkle brightly with Jesus’ reflection!
Hi Nancy,
Wonderful as always. Phil 4:8 has lots of great nugget statements. What a nice template to live out a Christian life in a society with such mixed messages.
In Christ,
Gary
Great point, Gary. With one verse of scripture, Paul sets the perfect standard for dealing with those mixed messages! Thank you for your faithful visits and encouraging comments, Gary. Greatly appreciated!
Living it out is what people really want to see.
You are so right!
My life verse is from Hebrews 12:2 keep your eyes upon Jesus. Whenever i am down or stressed it is usually I am “beholding” something other than him. great words, Thanks Nancy
You are so right, Jean, and it’s really quite simple isn’t it. Just like the old hymn writer said: “Turn your eyes upon Jesus…and the things of earth will grow strangely dim, in the light of his glory and grace.” P.S. That’s a great life verse you’ve chosen!