Emily* and I met at a meeting, and afterward the subject of the Bible came into the conversation—a conversation that went something like this:
“The Bible is just fairy tales,” she declared.
“That is a popular viewpoint,” I replied. “How did you come to that conclusion?”
“Well, it’s full of crazy, unbelievable stories,” Emily asserted passionately. “Noah and the ark, David and Goliath, not to mention Jesus and his supposed miracles. Who in their right mind would believe such stuff?”
I began to pray silently as our conversation continued. Lord, help me speak your words. May Emily reconsider her position and seek truth.
“I agree such events seem incredible,” I offered. “But I’ve come to believe the Biblical record is truth, backed up by decades of archaeological research, hundreds of ancient manuscripts—including the Dead Sea Scrolls, and dozens of scientific and medical corroborations. Also, numerous prophecies have been fulfilled with amazing accuracy. I can recommend some books written by experts if you’d like to know more.”
But Emily became defensive, insisting such proofs were either coincidental or made up by misled people determined to keep the fairy tales alive.
(The Ark Encounter at the Creation Museum, Petersburg, KY)
The conversation did not end well. Emily only became more vehement so I let her have the last word and bowed out as gracefully as I could. It felt like failure. Somehow in spite of my prayer, I must not have spoken God’s words for her.
Since that encounter, however, I’ve come to realize:
We can trust God with our words if we’re seeking his wisdom (James 1:5) and speaking in love (1 Corinthians 13:4).
Remember what God told Moses, upon commissioning the wilderness shepherd to be his voice to Pharaoh?
It would stand to reason that with God teaching him exactly what to say, Moses would eloquently convince Pharaoh to release the Israelites on the first encounter.
Instead, Moses had to confront Pharaoh numerous times. Even a constant barrage of plagues didn’t deter Pharaoh from refusing Moses’ request—until every firstborn son died in every Egyptian household, including Pharaoh’s. The hard-hearted ruler was brought low by grief, and finally let the Israelites go.
Does such a record indicate that God’s words through Moses failed repeatedly? NO. God had his reason for the delay:
Then the Lord said to Moses,
“Go to Pharaoh, for I have hardened his heart…
so that I may perform these signs of mine among them
that you may tell your children and grandchildren
how I dealt harshly with the Egyptians
and how I performed my signs among them,
and that you may know that I am the Lord.”
–Exodus 10:1-2 NIV
These verses offer me great comfort for my conversation with Emily and others. I can trust God with the words I prayerfully spoke to her that day. They may have caused one more chink in her wall of defense against Christianity, so that she will one day know “that [he] is the Lord” and accept Jesus as Savior.
Such prayers are the kind God especially loves to answer.
What could be closer to God’s heart than the eternal destiny of one of his children?
Perhaps Emily will contact me one day and say, “I remembered what you said about the Bible and it got me to thinking…”
So I continue to pray.
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As I submit myself to you, O God, may my words be characterized by your wisdom that gently persuades and winsome grace that draws people to you–all from a heart motivated by love. Then may your words echo in the minds of those who hear until doubt is transformed into faith.
*Name changed.
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You inspired me today with your boldness, dear Nancy. “A man convinced against his will is of the same opinion still.” Sometimes we can’t avoid a conflict. That is ok. Conflicts make us think. Praying for wills to submit to God and be convinced by the Holy Spirit.
My dad used to quote that saying about a man convinced against his will! Strong truth. (My son reminded me that even Jesus did not convince everyone!) With you, Heidi, I pray for wills to submit to God and be convinced by the Holy Spirit.
Good reminder but the lesson that came out from your post for me today is your first response to her. So loving and open and engaging her. YOU did reject her, get angry – you modeled Christ to her. Thank you for the inspiration.
Somewhere along the way I learned that asking questions is a good way to engage people in conversation about Jesus, the Bible, Christianity, etc. It’s usually counterproductive to be confrontational. Praise God you found inspiration here, Jean!
Hi Nancy,
God’s Living, active able to part spirit and soul, word does not go out void. They are active seeds that we pray will blossom in her.
In Christ,
Gary
More than once I have taken comfort in Isaiah 55:11 about God’s word not returning to him void. Thank you for adding your prayer to mine, Gary!
That’s what we are here for.
Beautiful Nancy- thanks for sharing.
Thank you, Vicky! I so appreciate you stopping by and taking time to comment.
Somehow my comments did not get posted for this blog last week. I have a family member who is an agnostic. It is heartbreaking for sure. The great thing is that when we have talked about salvation there has never been any awkwardness or unpleasantness at all. That is because I rely upon the Lord and the Holy Spirit to guide the conversation, I am sure. And sometimes loved ones are the most difficult to reach, I think. I pray that perhaps someone else will come into his life to share the gift of salvation. I have sent him the book ‘The Reason for God’ (which he had actually heard of!). Nancy, I’d love to know what suggestions you would have! Wonderful post!
I agree, family members are often the most difficult to reach. I pray as you do, and also that things they see, read, and hear will continually draw their attention to Jesus. I’ve not heard of The Reason of God, but other books that have been influential include C. S. Lewis’ Mere Christianity, John Stott’s Basic Christianity, and Lee Strobel’s The Case for Christ. No doubt there are many more