Some believe that indulging in memories is a waste of time, that past events have no meaning for the present. But nothing could be further from the truth— especially if we acknowledge God’s part in those events.
When we include God in our remembering:
- We gain a sense of perspective.
Even difficult times are part of God’s plan. Sometimes, with the gift of hindsight, we catch a glimpse of his purpose later.
For example, how many students have struggled through school, yet in adulthood flourished in careers well matched to their gifts? Most of them are actually thankful for the early challenges, because they learned perseverance and developed strength of character. Those late-bloomers are often compassionate and understanding toward other strugglers, because they remember the difficulties of those formative years.
- We acquire wisdom for today.
“Reflective thinking turns experience into insight.”
–John Maxwell
In my younger days I used to be a champion talker. But somewhere along the way I began to notice the listeners—caring folks who often demonstrated the gentle and quiet spirit Peter spoke of (1 Peter 3:3). They reminded me of my sweet grandmother.
I valued that demeanor and began to turn insight into a new experience of focused listening. (Please understand: practice hasn’t achieved perfection yet. But improvement? Yes.)
- We build a foundation of stability for today as we remember God’s grace and faithfulness in the past.
But memories easily fade. So some believers keep a book of remembrance or a praise journal, as a way to savor God’s faithfulness.
Just for fun, I randomly opened my loose leaf praise journal in search of an entry to share with you. Here’s what I wrote, December 23, 2003, about our older son, who was in college at the time:
(“Eric got a new job yesterday and it starts today! The owner of the bike shop has not paid Eric for ten days, but a friend offered him a job in their family’s fireplace shop at the same salary.”)
Entry after entry highlight God’s provision, protection, and guidance through the years. And each memory contributes to my foundation of stability.
- We foster gratitude in our hearts.
As you can see, the entry recorded above ends with: “Thank you, Lord, for answering our prayers and providing for Eric.” Joy just naturally overflowed into appreciation.
On the opposing page I wrote, “I am overwhelmed, Lord, by this continuing string of blessings. You are SO good to us, always demonstrating your faithfulness and grace. May your praise continually be on my lips!”
Research has now proven a number of benefits of gratitude.* But surely one of the best: it nurtures a contented soul.
- We can turn remembering into a beautiful act of worship.
That’s exactly what scripture invites us to do:
“Rejoice in all the good which the Lord your God has given to you and your house” (Deuteronomy 26:11).
Praise the name of the Lord your God, who has done wondrously with you” (Joel 2:26b).
“You make me glad by your deeds, O Lord; I sing for joy at the works of your hands” (Psalm 92:4).
Such glorious cause and effect! Remembering God’s wonderful deeds of the past turns our hearts to worship, which causes a powerful, positive impact on the present.
- We can tell our stories of God’s miracles and mercies, to encourage the faith of others and refresh our own.
Scripture invites us to do that too:
“I will tell of the kindness of the Lord, the deeds for which he is to be praised, according to all he has done for us” (Isaiah 63:7).
So let’s begin here! Please share in the comment section below about a kindness, miracle, or mercy of God from your memory. And together we can praise the name of the Lord who has worked wonders for us!
* Another post details some of those benefits, “Happiness.”
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Making memories is wonderful. Sometimes when I go on a trip, I take the same trip again in my memory. Thanks again Nancy for your delightful blog. Laura.
And thank you, Laura, for continuing to be a regular reader. Trips offer a change of scenery and routine that can augment our appreciation for God’s creation, his people, and more. Add to that the delight of enjoying such pleasures of life again and again through memory. You are so smart to consciously MAKE memories!
This is amazing. I really believe in the power of reflection/remembering and yu have stated it some well here. today.
Thank you, Jean–I know you value the reflective/remembering life, and what God teaches as a result!
When my brother passed away in 2006 the Lord sent me three little signs that Mick was passing into the Lord’s presence. So, whenever I reflect upon losing him I am reminded of the Lord’s faithfulness and goodness to me: He bestowed a peace in my heart that Mick is indeed with our Lord and Savior and that I will see him again someday for all eternity. It never fails to lighten my heart! God is so good!
What a hope-filled testimony, Cheri. God certainly demonstrated his faithfulness and goodness with those three little signs. And praise him for the memories of such moments that continue to warm our hearts as the years pass. Thank you so much for sharing your tender remembrance.
Leaving my all-time-favorite-given-by-God dog after surgery at the vet’s clinic that Friday night wrenched my heart. Still, I attended our evening praise service. During a time of silence, my imagination conjured a sudden, sharp whistle . . . then the image of Charlie, my homely mutt, seen from the back, running headlong away from my view, his plumy pantaloons wafting. I later learned the vision? mental image? grace-gift? coincided with the time of his death. It still speaks to me.
God whistled; and Charlie ran. May I do no less.
A bittersweet memory and a gentle message that continues to inspire. Beautiful, Laurie! I’m hopeful that all beloved pets will be in heaven with their people, based on Romans 8:19-22!
I need to record more of those kinds of Providence reports in my journal. Thanks for the encouragement, as always, Nancy!
You’re welcome, Mitch. And thank you for stopping by!
Hi Nancy,
Memories are treasures for sure. This is a great case for why my students need to not fuss when asked to write. Thanks for the reminder.
Gary
I never thought about that! Those reflective essays and narratives your students write have the potential to turn experiences into valuable insight for sure–something they can carry with them into the future.
I hope so. It can be very difficult to pull stories out of at risk students.
God bless you for your efforts, Gary. He’s given you a challenging assignment!
As a teacher you know God gives you that window. Thank you for your time wearing that hat.